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Dear April Masini," I started dating him, but he's divorced with two kids and it's not just me and this guy in the relationship - it's me, this guy, and the two kids!
Do you have any tips for how I can proceed so I don't blow it?
They may have some ketchup or other undistinguishable stains on their sleeves that they didn’t notice. This is totally normal and something you will eventually find to be very sexy. Raise their kids, and maintain a home, and support their families. Trust me, they don’t want to be and they did their best not to be, but there is just not *quite* enough time in any day to get it all done.
Sometimes, it is everything they can do to get out the door to come see you in the first place. Next, you should know that they will probably not want to take you back to their place for quite some time. 1) they really don’t want their kids meeting any new person in their life until they are sure it is going to last a long while.
And they will probably have ketchup stains when they show up there, too.
You see, to come see you, they had to feed their kids corn dogs for dinner because they were already running ten minutes late.
Next, know that they may not be as available as you want them to be.
But you see a flashing yellow light because you and your boyfriend parent differently. Consider this a “how to date a single dad” advice list. He’ll eventually realize he’s doing it and the conversation will then become first date appropriate. But if you have your eye on one, there are a few things you should know about them. First, you should know that he’s going to talk about his kids. I know, I know, the conversation should be greatly focused about you, him, and both of your awesomeness on a first date, but you have to understand that single dads live and breathe their kids and their kids’ happiness, so give him a minute or twenty to get it out of his system.Beautiful things that make dating a good single dad so worth it. Add a failed marriage and couple of kids into the mix, and it's a whole new level of "it's complicated." One of the hardest parts of being a single dad is that it can be really, really lonely.
Of course, you do have to be careful when there are kids involved because if things don't work out it's not just you and the guy who get hurt -- it's the kids, too, and since they've already gone through a divorce, it's not their first time to be burned.