Personality dating my foil
I just wasn’t seeing them before because I was trying to force fit myself around me rather than getting out there to meet new guys.
When you have to alter or restrain yourself to get someone to like you, chances are the person was never compatible with your true self.
🙂 It took much longer than I expected because there was just so much I had to say and I wanted to make sure I was writing it in the best way possible for all of you! While he had met and been with girls of all looks and characters, none of the relationships fulfilled him (which was why they would always end at some point).
So this is where I want to clarify and say that (b) isn’t thinking about dating/love and blocking them out of your life.
You can’t expect others to love you if you don’t love yourself first.
As Ayn Rand once said, “To say ‘I love you’ one must first be able to say the ‘I’.” Read: How To Be The Most Confident Person In The World Strive to be the best you.
I didn’t want to live in anticipation of meeting someone anymore; it was exhausting. Notice these reasons are rooted in wholeness, betterment, authenticity, and abundance, unlike fear-based reasons which are rooted in scarcity, neediness, lack and fear.
As life would have it, Ken entered my life right after I dropped my fear-based intentions for a relationship and embraced it 100% with faith, purity, and love. The former is what a relationship about, where the latter treats relationships as a tool to patch issues.